In the middle of storm

At this moment, i am in the point of contemplating

Too many contemplating i guess, so it makes my head too full and ready to blow up. 

For a moment, this little head of mine is occupied by the present days. 

I am ,sometimes, questioning myself for what i am doing at the moment. 

Fortunately i am now stepping on my -almost- finished bachelor thesis

Which then makes me wonder about everything

Standing in this phase made me think A LOT

I have figured out about what i am going to do after this bachelor thesis phase finally reach its last line. 

I am going to get my master degree and pursuing my psychologist licence

It's good that i already have a thought about this,

but then another formula called "what if" cross the line 

WHAT IF i couldn't make my way to that point? 

To be honest, this thought is the nightmare thought of all

WHAT IF I'm not going to graduate in May?

WHAT IF I fail my master degree test? 

WHAT IF .... WHAT IF ... and thousands of WHAT IF ...

1 friend once quoted a movie line which said 

What and If are good, but once you put them together it will threatened you

and i second that!! 100% 

I know most people will say 

Calm down Nhira.. You'll make it! Someone like you will do just fine! 

For a moment, i really wish i that i could buy that. 

However, something inside me just won't let me to.

somehow i feel like screaming 

this someone like me just doesnt feel good about herself and her ability

this someone like me is afraid that she's been misjudging herself

There's always be an extra credit for being me. Even tough i'm a mess (for now), i'm still be able to see things from different perspectives. 

the positive perspective conclude that 

i am now in temporary mental turbulence. when i finish 1 thing (in this case, my bachelor thesis exam), surely 1 priority will be cut. My self esteem will increase (even a bit) then i'm going to prepare for my next target. So, it's just a matter of time. I need to focus on the pre exam first then i will have more time to think about the after exam stuff. 

Right,,, that's the positive side of me talking. Is it true? Hell, i wish it is and i'm gonna make sure it is!!

But then, the negative side wants to have his turn as well 

i am kinda desperate. It's mid march already. i haven't got an ACC from my supervisor. i don't know when i'm going to hold my sacred exam, which going to affect when my graduation would be. i'm kinda freak out about the exam. am i gonna fail? are the revision would be too much? Ooohh,,dont forget about the signature chasing!! my friends said that it's pain in the ass :(. 

Hhhhhh,,,,, Total eclipse mate... TOTAL ECLIPSE!!!

You might think that i am over reacting. Well, walk in my shoes now, then you gotta tell me, right into my eyes that i am over reacting!

Okeyy,, i am too emotional. I -unfortunately- gotta admit that

Stressors are on me

I'm coping

and as far as i know, im doing both problem focused and emotional focused coping..

I know it is a process, that's why it takes time

I pressume i just need to keep doing my best, keep my mental state as balance as i can, last but not least pray to Allah. 

I hope my fate is going in line with my desire

Let's just pray